HER Lesbian, Bi & Queer dating

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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating and Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 13 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, connect and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
See you around!
@hersocialapp
https://www.weareher.com


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Dating App & Social network for gay, bisexual, non-binary, trans and queer women
Updated on
Oct 26, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
  • This app may share these data types with third parties
    Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
  • This app may collect these data types
    Location, Personal info and 6 others
  • Data is encrypted in transit
  • You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

74.2K reviews
Beth Anderson
August 21, 2026
difficult app to use. had a good conversation with someone i matched with who was showing as 18 miles away only to discover she's at least 250 miles away. keep seeing notifications in the app only for there to be nothing there when I click. it's all very sex focused which puts me off as a demi/greysexual person. and the status covers the bottom of the photo so you often can't see their face or their whole face. other people have covered the problems with verified photos. could be brill but isn't
7 people found this review helpful
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Jessica Scott
April 13, 2026
this app just does not work in general. I have a new and updated phone and can't even get past the login page of this app, the link to help with logging in also does not work. It has done this the last time I used it and when I downloaded it again I managed to get as far as making a profile, and have not been able to get back in since 🤷‍♀️ this even with uninstalling and reinstalling, clearing cache and clearing data.
40 people found this review helpful
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Spy
April 6, 2026
Genuinely this is the only app on the market these days that isn't a pure scam. I've been using it for 3-4 years now and have had countless fantastic experiences and conversations. There is a bot problem and a lot of flakey people out there but they're easy to spot once you get used to it. I miss the friend requests feature (not that it ever worked but it was good it was there). It would be nice if there were more discovery features too.
24 people found this review helpful
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